{"id":53313,"date":"2025-11-26T09:46:55","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T07:46:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/web.iviskospublications.gr\/autopepoithisi\/"},"modified":"2026-04-14T10:41:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T08:41:27","slug":"autopepoithisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iviskospublications.gr\/en\/autopepoithisi\/","title":{"rendered":"SELF-CONFIDENCE \u2013 Excerpt from the book THE MEANING by Eirini Loisiou"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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SELF-CONFIDENCE<\/b><\/b><\/p>

Self-confidence is not something that can be taught. It is not a phrase. It is not a technique. It is not a title.<\/p>

It is something that is carved within you\u2014every time you live with honesty, every time you continue when you could have stopped.<\/p>

This is the story of a man who had to cross to the other side. Over a bridge that was not complete. Until he realized he was building it as he walked.<\/p>

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The Bridge with the Broken Steps<\/b><\/b><\/p>

Aris stood at the edge of a canyon. Across from him was the place he wanted to reach. The life he wanted to live. The person he wanted to become.<\/p>

Between them stood a bridge\u2014not whole. A wooden bridge with missing steps. Some were there. Some were broken. Some\u2026 simply didn\u2019t exist.<\/p>

He looked ahead and thought: \u201cI can\u2019t cross this. I don\u2019t know how.\u201d<\/p>

So he sat. He waited. Maybe someone would show him how. Maybe someone would build the bridge for him.<\/p>

He waited for days. Nothing changed.<\/p>

Until he heard a voice within:<\/p>

\u201cBridges are not built with thought. They are built with steps.\u201d<\/p>

And so, he took the first one. Careful. Hesitant. But a step.<\/p>

And something strange happened.<\/p>

In front of him, a step appeared where there had been nothing. With some steps, a new one would form. With others, it wouldn\u2019t. Sometimes he stepped into the void. He fell. He hurt. But he got back up.<\/p>

Sometimes he had to turn back and find another way. Sometimes he had to stand still until he found his center again.<\/p>

But every time he chose to continue\u2014even limping\u2014the bridge honored him with one more piece.<\/p>

When he finally reached the other side, he didn\u2019t need applause. He didn\u2019t need recognition. He didn\u2019t care what others would call him. He already knew.<\/p>

And looking back, he didn\u2019t see a bridge.<\/p>

He saw traces. Steps. Falls. Recoveries. Beginnings. Decisions. Initiatives. Choices. Courageous attempts and trials. Silences.<\/p>

And there, he smiled.<\/p>

His self-confidence was not the crossing.<\/p>

It was every step he dared to take.<\/p>

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Self-Confidence<\/b><\/b><\/p>

Self-confidence will not be given to you by self-help books. Not by affirmations. Not by any technique of mental empowerment. Not even by therapy. And certainly, no one else will build it for you.<\/p>

You build it yourself.<\/p>

Every time you stay true to the promises you made to yourself. Every time you achieve a goal.<\/p>

But also\u2026<\/p>

Every time you fall and rise again. Every time you continue when you thought you couldn\u2019t. Every time you choose yourself\u2014even when part of you hurts because of that choice. Every time you start over, because what you tried wasn\u2019t right for you\u2014or simply didn\u2019t work.<\/p>

Self-confidence is not taught.<\/p>

It is carved into your soul through your experiences.<\/p>

And that\u2019s why the shortest path to it\u2026 is to start LIVING.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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